Today I am visiting Everyday Fangirl! https://everydayfangirl.wordpress.com/ She has a great sense of humor and is a huge fan of all sorts of niche stuff and cult classics, from manga to Sherlock to science fiction.
Win free stuff with the SFR Brigade Summer Cafe Blog Hop!
As stated previously, I’m participating on the week of June 22nd (Androids and Aliens) with Liberation’s Kiss – which is next week! Check back on Monday for my post and chances to win. I’m super excited about it. The sneak preview is that it’s about how to change your hair color – or skin color, or eye color – without dyes, bleaches, or cosmetics. It’s already happening in the animal world. Intrigued? I hope you learn something as well as have a chance to win!
Here are the remaining weeks you can visit themed blogs, enter the week’s contests for books + gift cards + swag, and win!
- Dystopia – 15th-21st June (still time!)
- Androids and Aliens – 22nd-28th June (my week!)
- Supernova Hot – 29th June-5th July
- Space Opera 2 – 6th-12th July
As a reminder, here is the “menu” for my week starting on Monday:
“Starters” are short stories and novellas, “Main Courses” are novels, and “Extras” are the things you can win. I’m giving away an ecopy of Liberation’s Kiss. I hope you win!
I did not attend my five-year high school reunion. I had just graduated magna cum laude from Lewis & Clark College and was finishing up a year of Literacy*AmeriCorps, starting a job at the Fort Vancouver Regional Library, and interviewing for the JET Programme to teach English in Japan.
And yet, I was ashamed.
I was ashamed of what I hadn’t accomplished and the success I hadn’t achieved.
High school is such a constant pressure cooker. A teacher’s whim during grading determines your entire future; who you talk to outside the cafeteria determines your social rank; your worst mistake bolts you to an identity that is practically impossible to break out of . . .
. . . until graduation, when suddenly the walls crumble, the social sphere expands to take in the entire 6 billion of all humanity, and your future is whatever you make it at that moment.
And then after five years, for one single afternoon or evening you voluntarily walk back into the pressure cooker just to see how everyone “turned out.”
I struggled hard to get a job after college. Teaching English-as-a-Second-Language was fulfilling but nobody needs a college degree to volunteer a year in the “domestic Peace Corps.” When my five-year reunion rolled around, I did not have an impressive corporate job, a sleek new car, or shiny whitened teeth. I had nothing to prove I was different, that I had “made it” in the real world. My ten-year reunion was almost the same. Watching Romy And Michele’s High School Reunion was not hilarious. That movie outright terrified me.
Yet what if I had had an impressive corporate job, a sleek new car, and shiny whitened teeth? What if I had fulfilled my classmates’ every desire? What if I had flaunted my outward success?
What if no one even noticed I had changed?
In Pepper, I got the chance to explore those “what ifs.”
And I got to do it against the enchanting backdrop of the San Juan Islands.
So, how about you? Did you go to your high school reunion? Why or why not?